Momwemonso, okwatirana omwe ali m'chikondi amagonana mwachikondi ndipo simungawachotsere, mumatha kumva chikondi kuchokera kutali ndipo ngakhale kanema amawonetsa bwino, ngakhale munjira yonyansa. Kujambula ndikwabwino kwambiri, anyamata amasewera bwino, zikuwonekeratu kuti amayesetsa momwe angathere, kukuwa, kubuula, zonse ndi zawo, ndimakonda momwe chilichonse chimaganiziridwa pano, ndikuwonera mosangalala.
Mwana wamkazi aliyense ayenera kuphunzira momwe angagwirire zogonana. Ndipo zimakhala bwino makolo akamamvetsetsa. Bambo ake anayesa kumuphunzitsa njira yosavuta, koma amayi ake adanena kuti amadziwa bwino kuyamwa ndi kugwedeza. Iwo adaganiza kuti asamugwirebe bulu, koma adamuphunzitsa makhalidwe abwino pamphuno ndi mkamwa. Mayiyo anakhala katswiri waluso ndipo anaphunzitsa mwana wake njira yoyenera. Ndi banja labwino bwanji!